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Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is pain a big part of D/s?
A: No, not unless you negotiate ahead of time that you like pain.
Advanced sensuality can be devoid of any pain at all or it can transform pain
into something which grows increasingly erotic. It is slowly developed over
months and months with a novice, but can instantly blossom with two
experienced players. This can be hard to understand for the beginner, but it
involves building trust in order to experiment.
The art of introduction to mild pain is best accomplished with a skilled
Dominant, who is highly compassionate and in tune with Her sub. A lot of
pleasure accompanies the pain and gradually changes the concept of pain.
'Gradually' is the key word. I prefer pleasure rewards for excellent obedient
behavior. Most of the time, denial is painful enough. Longing for what you
desire but have not yet earned is painful. I occasionally meet an erotic
submissive masochist. That can be fun!
One must always remember that much of life is full of some kind of pain or
another anyway, and many romantic songs will attest to that! If you work out
at the gym to stay in shape, you'll be aching for a while. This explains why
so many Americans are out of shape.
Q: Do you travel to the city where I live?
A: Occasionally I will travel to your city, after advanced arrangements have been
made.
Q: Do you enjoy Crossdressing someone?
A:
I quite adore getting a student or client into pretty feminine things. I just
love it when someone tells me he is into crossdressing. If he is less than
five feet and nine inches tall, I really enjoy myself, because then there is a
chance I can transform him to pass for a girl and someday take him out! You
don't have to be of that stature in order to get into the lingerie drawer
though! Makeup is lots of fun for me and so are wigs and fingernails. But the
simple stockings and garter belt with bra and panties is good enough to have
a very fun time, and let's not forget the high heels! Spikes and stilettos!
Q: What kind of equipment do you have?
A: I have many hand tools, including lovely whips, both heavy and delicate, which
have been collecting in my Pandora's box, for many years now. My favorite is a
Deerskin whip which is the softest most velvety feel you ever imagined across
your.......! I have paddles and canes and riding crops. I have mittens and
collars and many other sorts of body adornments and bondage devices. Nipple
clamps and electrical excitements. CBT specialties. Wax and shaving tools to
make you bare! I have great bondage equipment which immobilizes hands and
bodies. I have heavy chains and many padlocks with keys that I sometimes
lose (Smile)!
I do not have large pieces yet, such as metal spinning wheels, racks and
suspension equipment, but I can secure you to the ceiling while I work
my majick on you.
What I do love that I use frequently is my Sling. It
holds you firmly on your back in the air while I toy with your helplessness.
My implements are many and they engage all of your senses. The smell and
taste of leather will make you swoon! I am the ultimate decider of how the
equipment is being used, which is what should be your real concern.
Remember the saying: "It's not what I've got, but how I use it"?
Q: How long is an average session?
A: An average session is two hours in length. I can do 90 minute sessions and 60
minute sessions but I prefer the two hour sessions. That amount of time gives
us space to get acquainted and relaxed. I also can keep you captive for up to
6 hours. Sometimes I can keep you overnight and then you sleep in bondage and
blindfold. Sometimes in the Bathtub! The length of the session is negotiated
in advance and decided upon by you and I before you arrive. I ask you to
think carefully about it before you contact me.
Q: What is your wardrobe like?
A: I have a fetish for leather. I have gorgeous skirts, dresses, jackets,
lingerie and gloves. I also have many, many sexy shoes and tall,
dangerous boots and I adore them. I love costume. So depending on the way I
grow to like someone, I will dress for that person, depending on what I
discover over the months and years, that person likes. It is completely up to
My Mood. I also have a small collection of Latex clothes. I love silver
studded things and I own a beautiful pair of Spurs, just for the horsie of my
dreams!
Q: Do you consider Life management training?
A: I do this many times in a month. It means that I organize a disorganized boy
and help him get his body and health and priorities straight. He acts on my
suggestions when he is away from me and out of my sight. His life is improved
and he gains new purpose and meaning to his everyday routine.
Many possibilities exist here. However it takes serious dedication to the
cause and to Me, his Goddess Guide, for life management training.
Q: True ownership?
A: True slavery exists only by mutually negotiated, consensual contract and is
agreed upon after a long period of getting to know one another. If you have
accrued a year or more of coming to visit me then we can talk about it. Until
that happens, it is mainly a fantasy that we can play with and have fun with
for a few hours, as you wear your collar and bow down to kiss the Holy Feet
of your Goddess!
Q: Do you do heavy scenes?
A: Yes we can negotiate heavy scenes.
I have been in the D/s scene long enough to have seen just
about everything done, and have also done just about everything in
this country and Europe, as well.
Your definition of the word
"heavy" may be different than mine, so negotiation is done thoroughly and
several "safe" words are agreed upon beforehand. You are well prepared by Me
before doing a heavy scene and all safe, sane and consensual considerations
come into play. Usually these happen after we have known each other during
several encounters first.
Q: What is your Style ?
A:
My style has been called "Strict" but fun loving. I have been called
'Royalty,' so there is an air of regalness to my posture and my walk. This is
what others have said about me; it is not how I label myself. But then when I
get to know you and you see my sense of humor, I can break out into the most
infectious laughter that you may have encountered in a long while. I like to
laugh. But contrasting that, I have a very serious face in the beginning
until I get to know your personality. My first desire for a student is that
he listens well in my presence. I do not tolerate an easily distracted slave
boy. If he pays close attention to me he will feel thrills no one else can
make him feel. I am the Great Mother Goddess and the Kali Ma connection. I am
a tall Woman and German by bloodline. My demeanor can be very disciplinarian.
But those who know me well have grown to love both of my sides; strict and
humorous!
Ready to meet Me?
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